What Is An Occasion?

Is getting boba an Occasion? Yes! Is it dumb to wear a cool fit to do it? No!

You can bet your ass I’m going to wear clothes I love to do a thing I enjoy.

Do I need an occasion to wear this?

I think it’s time for us to define what is an “occasion” because classic menswear (tailoring, outfits with ties, whatever you want to call it) tends to be considered occasion wear in the eyes of most people. This results in two things I experience: people wondering why I’m “wasting” an outfit on a non-occasion and people who don’t get into menswear because there are no occasions anymore.

Granted, classic menswear wasn’t always considered occasion wear; that’s a relatively new thing. For a while, outfits utilizing jackets/suits and ties were simply the de facto look for men in Western civilization. There were subtle variations like a tuxedo suit (with silk facings) for formal events, navy or grey when working in the city, and tweeds and flannels for the country or sportswear (casual). But over time, these subtle style moves to delineate occasion or dress codes within the framework of classic menswear have been lost.

To the eyes of most people (especially in Los Angeles), any combination of button-up shirt, leather shoes, tie, and jacket/suit is seen as “formal” AKA for a special occasion. With the subtle (but very real) demise of dress codes, the democratization of fashion, and the acceptance of niche fashion subcultures, the window for occasion wear has widened. This has resulted in classic menswear having even less social relevance outside of the rarest of social occasions that actually require it, which doesn’t apply to most people.

The reality is that the conventional occasion for a suit (especially in LA) just doesn’t come up for most men anymore; when it does, it can be solved with a trusty J. Crew Ludlow or Suit Supply Havana in the closet. But if you’re considering fashion as a hobby or are concerned with social benefits there are still not many “real” occasions to wear a suit. And most people don’t want to wear a suit (or variations of tailoring) on a daily basis. It would be “absurd”, and a pragmatist mindset doesn’t lend itself to “absurd” hobbies.

Ethan - cream Shawl collar dB dinner jacket, tuxedo trousers, Stubbs and wootton velvet slippers, evening wear, tuxedo
For a long time, this wedding in 2016 was the only true occasion I attended.

I’ve been out of university since 2015 and I haven’t had many required occasions to wear tailoring (or at least to the degree I currently wear it). This might be due to my chosen industry (marketing, creative), but I have no industry black tie galas; no one in my office wears a sportcoat; and outside of Isabel’s family, none of my friends are getting married anytime soon. The occasions that classic menswear makes sense for just don’t really exist in my life; I would say the same context applies to a majority of my friends or the people I interact with most frequently. Add in the pandemic nixing IRL social gatherings and replacing them with digital hangouts and you have even fewer occasions, let alone a reason to buy clothes for them. It would be a “waste” due to the lack of occasions for well, occasion clothing.

Based on my conversations with friends and mutuals, it seems that this is why guys don’t get to commit to menswear. They can understand it, appreciate it, and even want to own it, but what stops them is the lack of occasion. They don’t want to let these clothes languish in their closet, waiting for the “right” moment to wear. Even in my Patreon Discord, there is still a focus on occasion– if nothing is going on (no occasions), then there’s no need to even get fitted.

Obviously, I don’t believe in that one bit. I think it’s because I view “occasions” much differently than everyone else. While my attire may be considered “occasion” wear to most, I really just consider them regular clothes. And as you can tell from my decade of being in this, I wear them whenever I feel like it, whether I’m at an event, hanging with friends, or doing something solo (with our without leaving my house). My everyday attire just happens to look like occasion wear. Ultimately my participation in menswear is not predicated on formal occasions or life situations. I do it because I love my clothes and I want to wear them!

I’ll make my own occasions to dress up!

Hanging out with friends is always a special time and as such, it’s fun to wear something you also think is special (or at least enjoy).

An Occasion in my mind isn’t about formality or tradition (like a wedding or funeral). . For my purposes, an Occasion is simply a glorious moment where intention, availability, and ability align. I might even call an Occasion a synonym for an “activity”, but to be clear, activities are special. That’s because an Occasion is special because it has intent, whether it’s internal or externally spurred, making it different than the banality of non-activity. The fun of this menswear hobby is getting to make an outfit any and all Occasions you have.

Perhaps its helpful to provide some context. Until I was in college, I didn’t really have many chances to hang out with my friends. Some of you may recall that I spent my elementary through high school years at a Christian private school. This meant that we didn’t have much in the way of arts (not enough funding, also some arts are “evil”), classes were incredibly small, and most importantly for the purpose of this essay, students did not live locally to the school which meant none of us had truly local friends. Everyone lived around 20+ minutes away. They must have really loved Jesus to make that commute.

This combined with the fact that none of my few school friends drove until college meant that hanging out was rare. They were all picked up immediately after school, so there were no after school walks to the mall or boba shop. Weekends would have been open, except we all went to different churches; Sunday hangs were at the mercy of our parent’s willingness to drive. My friend group actually liked going to school because it was the only confirmed place we could see each other.

As a result, I began to consider hanging out to be a Special Occasion, which later complimented my growing interest in menswear. I knew from the beginning that my love of clothing was due to a taste for certain details rather than being predicated on formal situations. However, I was still aware of general perceptions of tailoring and struggled with how to reconcile them with my own view on clothing. But after becoming friends with Spencer, my view of tailoring was less about Traditional Occasions and more about “what we wore” for the occasion of hanging out. We certainly weren’t doing anything fancy during our hangouts (we were teenagers after all), but it felt special because of all the factors that led to it. Spencer and I still live an hour from each other, which makes hanging out pretty special to me. Why wouldn’t we dress in the clothes that bonded us and actively make us happy?

The “hanging out as an Occasion” philosophy becomes scarily relevant the older you get. You start to move away from friends. Or perhaps you get a new job or develop a new hobby that lessens your free time. And being free one day doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll have the same consistency the following week. When all of this happens, you tend to realize that any time you see your pals is special, whether it’s something as casual as coffee/boba or the rare full-day outings that involve going to the Huntington or the Getty and grabbing a bit to eat after. There’s a reason why my blog is full of diary-style posts of hangouts rather than conventional, pragmatic events like weddings or job interviews.

But what I now realize is that Occasion doesn’t have to be just about seeing your friends. As you get older, you realize that any free time at all is scarce. And perhaps that’s an Occasion too!

Spencer is a busy guy and knows that coffee is a treat, whether it’s with friends or not. Naturally getting to wear a fun fit is a treat to get a treat!

I’m so used to being busy. When I was in college, I worked in the school office during the day and retail at night. When I had my menswear job, I commuted over an hour each way to Beverly Hills. And now working at a marketing agency, every day is filled with numerous internal/external meetings, with campaign demands that come in at all hours of the day (even on weekends). The moments where time is yours become special, an Occasion. You see, when I am free (whether during work hours or after it), I don’t use that time just to see my friends– I do me. I do whatever I want to do.

An Occasion then becomes any activity that you look forward to, whether there are external people involved or not. I’m not saying that you need to force yourself to do “fancy”, dress-code-required events in your life just for the sake of dressing up, but I am saying that it does take a bit of a mindset change so that you get excited about wearing clothes, rather than potentially “wasting” them.

I think it’s an Occasion to be able to have a free evening and spend it watching a movie or reading a book. It’s also an Occasion to work from a coffee or boba shop instead of your room because there are fewer meetings that day. I’d also count going to local restaurants or going thrifting. We can’t forget going to the symphony or seeing my favorite local band. My life, even one with a minimal friend or even general human contact, is never boring because I keep myself busy with activities I enjoy. All of these things are special and even rare (or at least not consistent in an adult’s life). Why not take the opportunity to wear something you love when doing activities you enjoy?

With this expanded metric of what an occasion is, I would even say that being able to put on clothes is an Occasion in and of itself. I definitely look forward to that activity (or ritual, whatever you want to call it) because its fun and a bit creative , like me counting down the hours to just jam out on the piano. There’s also the fact that I truly consider my clothes special, almost like the Legos or action figures I’ve amassed over the years. Mark Cho once posted on his IG story that his watches are a bit like a faithful companion (or pet). I think I view clothes in the same way, but more like a friend I get to see and “play” with.

Most of my wardrobe has had some “work” behind it, whether it was through thrifting and extensive eBay searches or by working with Dave on the pattern on my Atelier Fugue suits, so being able to “play” with them really is a significant boon to my day. To me, the hobby of wearing clothes is an Occasion that makes me happy with each outfit I create. As I said in my hobby essay, it is not just about buying or creating outfits; it is about wearing them. Luckily for me, my clothes don’t hinder my regular day activities in the slightest!

This is most likely why I am perfectly fine getting dressed in an outfit to (largely) stay at home, because even in my room there is some Occasion to look forward to. Even if that is working on my blog, recording a podcast, or reading a book. Even if this all completely absurd, I definitely think it matters that I intentionally chose to wear something I enjoy everyday.. That being said, I do try and do something outside of the home, which is why I schedule errands across the week or treat myself to a boba or coffee after an especially rough day at work. After all, those outfits are what I envision “a guy like myself” to be wearing while doing those things.

Whatever it is, the activities and the outfits I wear are something I constantly look forward to. I’ll even keep the outfit on long before or long after the Occasion is “finished” (aka while working or after coffee respectively) to keep that special feeling alive to whatever I do afterward. I have no problem being the guy in the sportcoat when there is no “real” reason to be; I know that I’m dressed for something I am looking forward to do or just left something I really wanted to do.

Sometimes wanting to wear a fit does inspire the occasion, like us wanting to dress up in black tie (so we did a fancy dinner).

Some of you know that I make outfits ad infinitum because I’m constantly inspired (and I have a large wardrobe). I like to think that for most things I do in my life, I just happen to be wearing the outfit I already decided on wearing for that day. But I’d be wrong to say that my fit doesn’t in some way affect the activity/Occasions I find myself in . There are times when I make an ivy fit and it reminds me that I should take some time to read at a coffee shop. Or when I put a solid tie with a jacket and the dark look inspires me to call up Spencer for local drink (or to take Isabel on an impromptu date night). I can’t quantify how many times this happens or to what degree it happens, but I’m now more aware of this phenomenon. As I said, I’m always busy and my mind is always running; there are always things to do and clothes to wear.

What I do know is the Occasion is big or small, external or internal, with friends or solo, and impromptu or planned, I have the agency to wear what I want. It’s an Occasion to wear Esquire Man for an unaccompanied boba, Safincore to check out an art gallery with Isabel, or ivy for a trivia night. The specific outfit I wear is all in good fun, coupled with a healthy dose of Cinematic Dressing to determine which framework to go with. Some of these “characters” are inspired by old school formality (like the use of black shoes) but I wouldn’t say that the event I do is inherently a formal one. The outfits are simply what a “guy” like me would be wearing while doing them, which is why I wear that fit. The outfit becomes the look of that activity by default. Does that make sense?

Perhaps my attitude to dressing for the different Occasions in my life comes from the idea behind outdated dress codes, which were made to ensure that everyone is on the same page for what vibes fit the occasion. In most cases, occasions were celebratory, which required an attendee’s best attire. I definitely think I do this for my own Occasions– I wear what I like to celebrate, have fun, and most importantly, do things I don’t normally get to do. I also tend to see events/hangs/Occasions as one-offs due to how much they depend on fate and the fact that we don’t know if the same people are going to be free again. A drink with a friend at a local bar is an occasion, because it may be months before we can do it again. Why not wear something you want to wear for such an occasion?

And to be clear, most of what I want to wear is something that involves a tie and tailoring. The pandemic has shown me that this is my “normal” look that I think I look my best in and, which is why you see it most often worn to almost anything I’m doing (within reason). In fact, you might even say it takes an extremely Special Occasion for me to break out my casual attire, which usually is activity that is “externally” motivated, like practical-yet-vintage themed wear for scrounging flea market or something with shorts and a terry cloth shirt for going swimming. In these Occasions, I’m celebrating the deviance from my regular life by wearing something else that fits those vibes, while still being a fit I and makes sense with my overall style.

Regular flea market fits are a good excuse Occasion to go casual.
Jack and James get fitted all the time (in their own way), whether the hang is “formal” or casual. This was taken at trivia night, a place that certainly has no dress code.

Over the years, I’ve come to realize is that all my fashion-inclined friends tend to share this philosophy on Occasion. While we may have different individual styles, our common ground is that we understand that we have agency, agency to create our own occasions and wear what we want. While most things don’t have dress codes (like going to trivia or getting coffee), a few of us do take the initiative to go further and make a more “conventional” Occasion. Just look at Jay’s black tie birthday dinner or the annual Friendsgivings where we are encouraged to dress up. But most of the time, its just silly like wearing aloha shirts to go to a tiki bar.

We all know that if we don’t take these opportunities to do something and wear cool fits, nothing will happen. Occasions just don’t naturally happen anymore. If we want a “reason” to dress up, we’ll make it happen. It’s never about being formal, but about getting in the mood to wear the things you love. And it’s pretty clear that our bar for an Occasion is low, which we definitely use to our advantage, even if we Stand Out in public doing “mundane” things. What we do doesn’t tend to have dress codes, so it’s up to us to fill it out. I’m pretty lucky to have friends who are into this.

There are a few times that we have Occasions that are externally motivated, but we are still granted relative freedom; such occasions are used as inspiration rather than as a constricting dress code. Events like Dapper Day, which certainly has a “vibe” inherent to the event, come to mind. Even weddings (rare as they are in my life) are a fun thing to dress for since it allows me to get into the mindset of someone else’s expectations. After all, those Occasions are about celebrating someone else, much like Jay’s birthday.

For most of our regular life, my friends and I are able to create our own Occasions and set our own attire for them. Life isn’t meant to wait around, twiddling our thumbs for the “right” Occasion to wear our cool clothes. We should wear them now!

There’s also a shared philosophy on effort, where we don’t consider making an outfit a chore or some kind of an insurmountable task. It’s something we enjoy doing, so getting dressed for any activity is easy and something we look forward to.

Externally motivated Occasions do happen (like this Vietnamese engagement party for Isabel’s cousin), but I shouldn’t rely on them to inspire my attire!

In short, the “death of occasion” isn’t something to be sad about as a menswear guy (or a fashion guy in general). In fact, you should be emboldened by it because you actually have the agency to decide what an Occasion means to you. Obviously, you don’t have to share the same wacky philosophy we have. But I can tell you, the “everything is an Occasion” mantra is a great motivator to wear your clothes and enjoy them. It’s all about celebrating everything you find yourself doing in life with a fit that you feel proud to wear!

Spencer, MJ, and I discuss the topic of “what is an Occasion” in our most recent podcast episode, which you can listen to below. We did this a bit to explain why we’re so “dressed up” all the time, but it also goes hand in hand with our previous discussions on Cinematic Dressing and Standing Out. Hell, this philosophy defining an Occasion as “life and all the activities we do” is truly the basis of our style and even who we are as people.

We also do talk about the few times we have an external occasion (like a job interview or a wedding) as well as the external occasions we look forward to and have power over our attire (like Dapper Day or the events Jay hosts. There’s also some commentary on the times we do adjust our attire to the Occasion, like going to the beach or the flea market.

Honestly, this might not be about redefining Occasions at all. At its core, the essay and podcast are about looking like the person you want to look like while doing the things you do in your life. For me, that happens to [usually] incorporate jackets, ties, and leather shoes: things most people assume are occasion wear. For others, it just means an intentional look that can sometimes be considered “extra” by most. But it’s important to remember that nothing about this is meant to uphold formality. It’s about reclaiming your agency for the activities you get to do and the clothes you want to wear while doing them. In essence, it’s about the look you have for what Adorno and Marx call “leisure time” and perhaps even dressing to celebrate (or look forward) to such moments.

This is why I also realized that one of the defining pieces of this mindset is refusing to default. I don’t mean that every outfit has to be a suit and tie, but it should at least be something intentional and exciting that you are proud to wear. Spencer’s look may be more casual than me and he often repeats exact outfits, but he knows he loves those rigs and wears them as much as possible. Sometimes this may mean getting dressed right before a dinner with friends , which I have no problem with. Other times this might mean wearing the fit the entire day because it gets you amped up for that boba-and-reading treat you have planned for yourself after work. And keeping the outfit on after the Occasion has “ended” is just another way to keep that special feeling alive.

Overall, this mindset is about us having fun and celebrating life with clothes that we enjoy (that happen to look like and have roots in what other people perceive to be formal). Perhaps that means reframing what we consider to be “worth it” or diving deep into what counts as “motivation”. If that means considering the little things we do as an Occasion, then so be it! Everything in life is special enough to have fun with for any occasion, whether it’s with company or on our own. And those Occasions always involve a fit we enjoy.

I can’t imagine living any other way!


Podcast Outline

  • 11:06 – Topic Intro
  • 16:09 – What Makes an Occasion?
  • 27:25 – Collapse of Occasion/Dress Code
  • 34:45 – Seeing Friends/Occasion of Everyday Life
  • 46:00 – Cinematic Dressing
  • 56:03 – Being Overdressed
  • 1:01:20 – Occasions We Have Attended/Making Our Own Occasions
  • 1:16:02 – Wrap-up

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My friends and I have always been used to creating our own Occasions.
You want to wear terry cloth shirts? Let’s hang at the pool!
Want an excuse to wear something “artsy”? Maybe take a trip to the museum!
When it came to vintage, we were pretty lucky that the scene hosted its own events.
Even vintage back yard sales were an Occasion to dress for.
Eventually I found Dapper Day, an on going event organizer that encouraged dressing up.
Outside of championing personal style, there wasn’t much in the way of a dress code. So I took the opportunity to dress my best every Dapper Day.
It was proof that you didn’t just have to wait for life’s traditional occasions to dress up.
When vintage events slowed down, we looked forward to Dapper Day’s occasions as an excuse to dress up.
We would meet other people who also enjoyed dressing up, like Linda and her family.
Sometimes I’d go trad…
…and other times, super formal.
Dapper Day became one of our favorite occasions to dress for.
And of course our friends joined in on the fun.
When The Bloke was around, they would host events too!
It was another occasion to dress for.
Everyone looked forward to trunk shows.
Before the pandemic, there were a handful of other events for menswear guys to go to. This was taken at the three year anniversary of the Wellema Hat Co.
The Gooch Collective was another regular event.
But of course we can’t always depend on external sources for occasions. That’s why Jay started his Friendsgiving tradition years ago. Like Dapper Day, there was always a loose dress code: dress in something nice that you like!
As the resident menswear guys in this friendgroup, we’d always dress up.
There was even one year where we didn’t wear ties.
And as our style evolved, Friendsgiving became just another occasion to “full send”.
It’s been an Occasion I always look forward to.
Jay has always hosted parties. This was a summer one back in 2017.
And of course we can’t forget his Black Tie Birthday. Its one of the few occasions where I was told to wear conservative black tie.
But even apart from those “special events” (both external and internal), my friends and I have always made our own occasions to dress.
And most of the time, it was just to hang out.
I guess you could argue that I’m just trying to romanticize my life in the way that I can. While I can’t write the score to everything I do, I guess I could get fitted for it!
I try to give myself some sense of occasion, because I think that any activity is special. I like going to museums and art galleries, which in turn inspires “artist-esque” attire.
My friends sometimes tag along!
Its a low effort outing that becomes more of a special occasion the older (and busier) we get.
We might as well take advantage of the occasion and wear some cool fits!
I’ve even started going to the symphony semi-regularly to give myself more occasions to look forward to (and dress for).
But if there is something I do organize myself, its Trivia Night. The occasion isn’t a formal one but a social one. It’s one day a week that my friends and I can get together for something that isn’t a museum or some external event.
It’s just meant to hang out. And some people like to show up fitted for it!
It truly is a special night I look forward to, which is why I don’t mind wearing a tie. I’m usually wearing one regardless, but the outfit is certainly not wasted for trivia. It almost enhances the experience!
Perhaps like me, they also think seeing friends is a special occasion!
It’s always fun to see what people will wear.
Again, me wearing a tie isn’t about making this a formal event but simply a result of me wearing something I enjoy to do an activity I love.
I think my friends all do that.

It wasn’t always like this. I didn’t always have friends that was as into clothing as I was.
But they all understood that I was dressing because I thought the time we spent together were special and I was wearing clothing that made me feel that way.
On the other hand, Spencer has always had Jay.
They always dressed up just to hang out, whether it was at home or the local mall.
I had a bit of this in college with my friend Raj.
We were different majors, so the time we did get to hang out was special. It was great when our schedules aligned.
But to be fair, Raj also thought life was an occasion and he was always fitted.
This shared philosophy is why Spencer and I quickly became close friends after meeting. We lived far from each other, so we got fitted every time we got a chance to hang out. It was an occasion.
Like Raj, Spencer always dressed up. While he is more casual now, he used to wear a lot of tailoring.
Seeing each other for dinner or a movie was enough for us to dress for, convention be damned.

Every hang was an occasion to dress for.
Even when we went to the mall.
Or going to trivia!
We gave ourselves reasons to dress down.
The occasion was friendship, not formality.
Now we just look like this whenever we hang out. Because hanging out is an occasion!
Now MJ started to get into clothing this way too. Even years ago, he liked to “dress up” just for hangouts.
And now he holds his own.
I’m very lucky to have friends who share the same mindset about Occasions.
Joshua and Garret Gooch are also examples of the “Life is an Occasion” philosophy. They both wear a cool outfit everyday, whether or not they see someone or do anything.
They also were proactive in hanging out because as freelancers, they knew that time spent with friends is an occasion.
Sometimes boba is the “only” thing you do that day, so you get dressed accordingly.

They wouldn’t waste a day without wearing a cool outfit.


I don’t see them much now, but I’ll always remember that they made an outfit even if it was just for boba.

I think the friends I’ve made since then all go through life the same way.
And even if they aren’t as formal as me, they always like to get dressed up in their own way whenever we hang out.
It’s just something my friends and I do. Maybe we’re weird!

But even the simple things in life are made more fun with friends and a fun outfit that you enjoy.

Obviously occasion is played up when you get to meet a friend who doesn’t live locally.
Or when its a friend with the same passion as you.
It doesn’t matter if everyone in the group is into fashion or not.
It doesn’t even need to be a conventional hang out.
Wearing a fun outfit just makes life fun!
You can also set your own dress codes, like wearing casual attire to the Rose Bowl Flea.
Seeing friends has no real dress code. You get to define the attire of the occasion for yourself!
Doesn’t matter if it’s an old friend from college….
…or a friend from the internet turned IRL.
We get dressed to hang out because we enjoy clothes and each other’s company!

But you guys know that I’d still dress this way around friends I see all the time.

Going bowling with a local Asian American Discord group is an occasion.
The pandemic didn’t stop us. In fact, it made us realize how much of Occassion it was to see friends!

Now we get dressed whenever we see each other, even if its just for a small part of our day. Plus, I’m new to drinking, so that was even more of an Occasion!
It was something to dress a little darker for. A new occasion with a “new” look.
You also gotta love friends who make their own Occasions (and get dressed for them).

I’m pretty happy that all of them like to “dress up”, even if we’re just hanging in a back yard.
Or an afternoon ice cream.
It doesn’t even matter if such friends are into fashion or not. I’m going to wear something I love because I’m hanging out with people I love!
And even if your friends are also into fashion, it doesn’t mean you have to have the exact same vibe! It’s just clothes…clothes you enjoy.

It doesn’t matter what type of hang it is, we’re always dressed. It’s never a waste when you’re with friends!

In fact, the lack of wedding or work events here should show you that those things just don’t exist for me.

Sir this is a Wendy’s.

I’m very lucky to have made friends who also see Occasions the same way.

I’m obviously “overdressed”, but that’s just my default. I like wearing this just for fun and I’m not putting on any airs or using my style to lord over others.
The best people always know that this whole thing is a personal hobby that we can all enjoy when we hang out.



A MTG tournament is an occasion for MJ, so why not wear your favorite clothes? Maybe it’ll give you a boost!

Gotta love friends who always take an opportunity to dress up (and eat good food).

The flea is a good occasion that has its own vibe to dress for. I look forward to it each month!







A tie to an escape room? I was already wearing one that day, but it’s also not a waste because I was hanging out with my friends!






These are pals I don’t see often, so a tie was worth it (even if I was already wearing it that day).



Even MJ is used to being the only one in a tie. He does it because he loves it!

The club was definitely an occasion, so I wore all black, boots, and a blazer. James is also in a tie. He certainly felt like it was worth it!


Ultimately this is about enjoying every time you wear an outfit. It’s never a waste if you enjoy your look and what you do while you wear it!
The pandemic has taught me that a jacket and tie is my default look, even when I’m alone or doing solo things. It’s a treat to dress up, which makes other treats (like coffee) even more fun.

I’m also consider myself lucky to be alive, employed, and able to do fun hobbies like a blog, write music, and take photos all from the comfort of my room. I think that’s enough to dress for, which is why I get fitted even when I don’t leave the house.
Sometimes the only Occasion is going out to grab a juicy burger. And my attire goes from “tie at home” to “tie for my favorite food”. I like that!
A lot of my selfies are taken in the cafes of my regular coffee shops that I consider a treat to work at.
I often forget to take errand selfies (because I take my fit pics at home) but I like that MJ does them!
Spencer gets fitted daily too!
It’s also fun when you dress to WFH…but a friend happens to asks you to hang out!
And we can’t forget the rare times we get invited to real occasion like a wedding.
But I’m also perfectly fine to dress for the occasion of “working from home alone”. There may not be cool flash photos of me at my desk, but you can bet your ass I’m still wearing an outfit I love (like the one above) while I do my solo hobbies (or watch tiktoks). Maybe I’m just weird!
I definitely think that I’m generally a happy person because I’m always wearing things I love.

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Ethan M. Wong

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  1. JJ Katz · February 24

    Nicely put. Life IS an occasion!


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  4. you wish son · 23 Hours Ago

    At most 2-3 outfits out of all those looks that “actually” worked. Everything else was atrocious. If you knew you were experimenting and learning, then it’s ok to look like a frigging clown. Literally.

    Otherwise, you got to understand what works for you, your color palette, ‘body type’, height, proportions, etc.

    You still got a LONG WAY to go. Don’t kid yourself, son.


    • Ethan M. Wong · 19 Hours Ago

      This whole blog is about doing clown cosplay, so you’re actually onto something


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